aw man i'm such a bum. i definitely woke up at 2:59 pm. i dont know how it happened, i actually went to sleep a bit earlier last night (3:30ish). pretty sweet dream though. a bunch of us, including irene and saroj, were on the bus home from somewhere really far. irene was sitting in the seat back of me, and there was this really cute guy in the seat opposite us. she was trying to hit on him by being all suggestive / coy / touchy-feely and it might have worked except that she retreated to the very back of the bus a little too early, with the plan of having him follow her back there so theyd be alone. with this opportunity, i moved in on him and started to lay on the down-to-earth / honest / clever charm, which also might have worked except that i woke up. but this dream does pose an interesting question. which method is more effective? i think it depends on what your goal is, something meaningful or something flingy. there's a place and a time for both, and also what works for you personally is a big factor too. i dont think i'd be able to pull off the seductive irene approach, with someone i didnt know even, without looking ridiculous. ew, since when did this turn into such a girly-girl "how to get your dream guy" teen magazine type post? i'd better stop.